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We asked experts to help decipher signs of love. Signs Someone Is in Love With You: How to Recognize Body Language and Beyond. Understand the different signs of love to help identify your true feelings.

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We asked experts to help decipher signs of love. Signs Someone Is in Love With You: How to Recognize Body Language and Beyond. Understand the different signs of love to help identify your true feelings. We asked experts to help decipher signs of love. Photo: Getty Images/ Vera Vita. ClassPass Wants You to Meet ‘The One’ This Valentine’s Day With New Workout Series. 10 New Romance Novels to Heat Things Up This Winter. Can’t Get Over Your Ex? 13 Psychological Reasons You’re Stuck and How To Move Forward. When it comes to love, there’s no easy definition for it that really can do the feeling justice. That’s because the meaning of love will be different for all people, their relationships, and the different contexts in which these relationships exist. There’s romantic love (or the kind you might share with a romantic partner: full of physical attraction, affection, and a healthy dose of lust), and platonic love (or the kind you share among friends). And sometimes there’s romantic love that turns platonic, platonic love that turns romantic, and even love that straddles both lines! However, for those in the early stages of a relationship, it can be tricky to decipher what you’re feeling. What are the signs of love? What are the signs someone is in love with you? What are signs this love will last? Experts in This Article. clinical psychologist, life fulfillment expert, and author of Date Smart , Joy From Fear , and Aging Joyfully. life and relationship coach. certified sex educator, author of The Game of Desire, and sex and relationships expert for K-Y and Bumble. As a starting off point, it might help to think of love (whether it be romantic or platonic) as “an ongoing inter-relationship between people marked by an abiding mutual appreciation and commitment to share each other’s lives and support one another,” explains couples therapist Stephanie Manes, JD, LCSW. Love is “about an intention to do your best with this person, regardless of how hard that might be at times,” Manes says. “It’s a feeling that your life is better because this person is in it.” If that doesn’t make the coldest hearts feel warm, fuzzy, and hopeful inside, I don’t know what will. “It’s a feeling that your life is better because this person is in it.” —Stephanie Manes, JD, LCSW, couples therapist. To help you decipher more signs of love (both physical and emotional), we reached out to a handful of the best relationship experts around for the scoop on exactly how to tell if someone is in love with you, how to tell if you’re in love with someone, the difference between romantic and platonic love, and much, much more. What is love? As Manes said above, put simply, “it’s about an intention to do your best with this person” even when things are not as easy as they could be. Sex and relationships expert Shan Boodram, expert for Bumble adds, that “love is a drive to stay bonded to someone that is hallmarked by a collection of enduring emotions and expectations.” Essentially, love is a word that encompasses both past history together as well as future promises and growth. Signs you’re in romantic love. 1. Consistent feelings. One of the more obvious signs of love is to look for non-situational feelings, Boodram explains. “Unlike feelings like happiness or sadness that can change based on a person’s environment or mindset, the feeling of love is consistent in a multitude of conditions over an extended period of time,” Boodram says. In other words, if you can feel love for someone even when they do something that highkey would otherwise annoy you (leaving dishes out, coming home without getting you that iced coffee they promised they’d get you, etc), that’s worth paying attention to. 2. Strategic ignorance. Boodram also suggests strategic ignorance, or “a commitment to not feeling certain things,” as potential signs of love, explaining that this definition thinks of love as “a conscious choice to overlook or ignore aspects of a partner or relationship that might otherwise cause negative emotions or doubts. It’s a form of selective attention where one chooses to focus on the positive aspects while minimizing or disregarding the negative,” Boodram adds. However, she also adds a caveat: “it’s a delicate balance, as too much ignorance can lead to neglect of real issues,” so keep that in mind. 3. You can physically feel the love. Another one of the classic signs of love is whether you’re physically drawn to them, as Manes suggests. Are you itching to sit as close as possible to them? Do you find yourself fighting the urge to touch their arm when you talk at dinner? Does your brain feel at peace when you’re snuggling up next to them? Boodram agrees that romantic love is something you can feel in your body, adding that chemicals like dopamine and serotonin and norepinephrine can actually physically and mentally make you feel the love, so to speak. “Love is not just a cerebral or abstract concept, but it’s closely tied to our physical bodies, our physiology, and the way we experience the world through our senses and interactions,” she adds. Signs you’re in platonic love. 1. Neither of you feel romantic tension or attraction. “When you’re in platonic love, there’s a distinct lack of romantic tension or flirtation between you,” says Boodram. In this situation, you might see someone you’re in platonic love with “as a close friend and companion, without feeling any physical or emotional longing for a romantic relationship,” she adds. Manes also explains that platonic love is different from romantic love in that there’s a lack of romantic attraction and excitement between partners. Whereas romantic love will have you excited by a person and wondering about what they do, what they think about in their spare time, and what interests them, in platonic love you may not have this curiosity or excitement. 2. You’re both able to be supportive without being jealous. In a platonic relationship, you’d be able to “genuinely celebrate each other’s successes and support each other through challenges without any hint of jealousy or possessiveness,” Boodram explains. While jealousy isn’t necessary in a romantic relationship, the presence of it can certainly help delineate whether you may have more romantic vs platonic feelings for someone. 3. You both have open communication. Another sign of a platonic bond, Boodram explains, is open communication: “You can openly discuss your personal lives, relationships, and even potential romantic interests with each other without feeling uncomfortable or secretive,” she adds. Is romantic or platonic love better? What’s the difference? For many people (but not all), Manes explains that romantic love includes sexual attraction and “takes you into a territory you don’t share with friends.” Boodram adds that for romantic love, there’s often a spark of butterflies, physical affection (such as the desire to hold hands, and cuddle — at an intensity beyond that of platonic love), and there’s also an element of planning for the future together, such as moving in, getting married, or starting a family. As for which is better: there’s no right or wrong answer. “Our culture places a huge premium on romantic love. We are collectively obsessed with it,” Manes says.